Amanda Mitchell Diaz
8 March 2026
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16:02
Andrew
Why'd you clear the history?
AM
23:57
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Like you said, these threads aren’t meant to live.
23:57
And there’s a lot more to say about that actually.
9 March 2026
A
07:01
Andrew
Ok so no reason in particular. All I was wondering.
AM
10:36
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Well, I did say that there’s a lot more to say about that.
A
12:43
Andrew
I don't care enough to try and draw it out of you. Enough drama as is with Felicia. I'm in a mode of trimming my friend list
AM
16:39
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I’m having a hard time knowing what to say to you. I could be willing to talk in person, but not over text. I’m going to Universal Studios with my kids for Harry Potter fun next week, so I’m also pretty busy
A
16:40
Andrew
No worries. No need to talk about anything.
16:41
I think deleting history is smart, as I've said a million times before. You're gonna get busted especially if messing around with this guy as you were describing.
AM
16:45
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Well I want to talk to you
16:47
Eventually at least when things calm down for me. And I think the length and sometimes strength of our friendship deserves that.
16:48
And I’m not messing around with anyone
11 March 2026
AM
11:58
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Did you write me and delete it?
11:59
The message I mean
A
12:47
Andrew
No
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12:54
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
🤷‍♀️
12:54
Telegram did something weird then…your message came to the top even though you’re not the last person I wrote
A
12:56
Andrew
I've seen it shuffle things out of order at times
AM
12:57
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Yeah, it’s weird
12 March 2026
AM
14:43
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I just found out this morning that Evan’s court date is tomorrow for his assault against me
A
15:24
Andrew
Fun lol
AM
15:45
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
lol, right?
A
15:46
Andrew
Are you going, I hope?
AM
15:46
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Clayton apparently has known since Monday but just told me today. I just got off the phone with the DA. Clayton thought he might be going to jail tomorrow, which I don’t want, I just want treatment that he can’t refuse, but even still it’s caused a huge problem at home. Ugh.
15:46
In reply to this message
I wasn’t planning on it. You think I should?
15:48
I mean, I want it taken seriously and for them to order something to really work towards mental health for him. I want them to know that I’m pretty much always scared of the next thing that’s going to happen
A
16:14
Andrew
You absolutely should go
16:15
Both as someone who is the victim and takes it seriously and wants to see a resolution.
16:15
And then also as someone who cares and will advocate for leniency if deserved.
16:16
If the kid is contrite and offering to be good then cool. It's not punitive. The point is to correct behavior.
16:16
And ... on top of all that. You don't trust Clayton. See you yourself rather than getting his telling of it.
16:17
Lol. I'd go one hundred percent. And I'm not an attorney!
AM
16:56
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Yeah, lol, but then I have to miss kickboxing 😂
16:57
But actually seriously, I am afraid of the repercussions with Clayton if I go. And also, I had a long chat with the DA today and previously, so I’ve gotten to tell the story. I will think about it, but I feel pretty uncomfortable about going.
17:01
It’s also just a pre trial hearing, so there will be more meetings. It’s not going to be the last one. Ugh, but also he still tells me to kill myself and hid my work computer a few weeks ago, soooo, there’s that.
A
18:22
Andrew
If not comfortable I get it, and that's a reasonable reason to stay away. And... need I point out the domino implications of that? You being afraid of Clayton about this is not good. That's abusive.
AM
19:14
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
No need to point it out. lol. I get it deeply in my soul
A
19:17
Andrew
Full crazy town with Felicia. My gossipy side is curious if you've heard anything whatsoever. HUGE drama so I figure you definitely have heard something. I wonder how ridiculous the rumors have become.
AM
19:17
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
BUT need I point out that I really don’t want you repeating this to anyone, no one, not even Hailey? Not Evan and not Clayton maybe being abusive. I thought about that after we talked, and honestly, a big reason I probably pushed back the thought is just because I enjoy talking to you so much. But the things that I learned this week make me nervous about trusting you… That’s actually what I wanted to talk to you about. But that’s for another day 🤗
A
19:20
Andrew
Well full disclosure, sorry, I kind of already mentioned it to Hailey. Not like details but high level I described the issues with step son. I can promise you she isn't gonna say anything. She's empathetic and just had a kind of "yikes that sucks" reaction.
19:20
"That’s actually what I wanted to talk to you about. But that’s for another day" - come on spill it
19:20
give me the high level synopsis.
A
20:51
Andrew
I'll give you the deets too, obviously
20:52
I'm mulling over whether to go after Felicia legally. Seems so dumb.
20:52
I sent Craig an apology about all the drama with her and my role in it.
13 March 2026
AM
08:50
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Voice message
02:27
08:54
I could also just talk on the phone… If that’s easier for you
A
08:55
Andrew
would have to move to get on the phone
08:55
I'm just now trying to get to sleep for a little
08:55
you'd find this project I'm working on interesting. using AI to do financial tracing and classify evidence as part of divorce suit
AM
08:56
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
Voice message
01:38
08:57
In reply to this message
Ha ha, OK. I’m a little jealous and wish I could sleep more. I am late to kickboxing… It starts in three minutes, but I’ll be in there for about an hour.
A
08:58
Andrew
sleep more you say, I haven't been to sleep yet
AM
08:58
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Jesus Christ
08:58
I think I would literally die
09:00
I just had a giant project that I think you would find interest, too. I did my first appellate brief to the board of immigration appeals. It was a crazy marriage fraud case and I got so excited about halfway through my writing. I found a case that made me look at the evidence differently, and I found the smoking gun! My boss told me it was a loser case, and then I shouldn’t spend too much time on it, but I ended up spending about double the amount of time he said and wrote a 23 page brief instead of an 8 to 10 page brief, and he thinks I got them! He said my arguments were very smart. All that being said, I thought I was exhausted and I was just staying up till midnight working on it, but never all night.
09:00
This is voice to text so it came out wonky… It should’ve said interesting instead of interest, obviously
A
09:14
Andrew
yeah I've busted someone of total fraud
AM
10:30
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Lol, I’m defending the people accused of fraud… The smoking gun was against the government for their shitty investigation and violation of procedural rules
AM
10:49
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Let me know if you have time to talk when you wake up 😴
AM
12:02
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I have a meeting for an hour but other than that can sneak away to talk. Hopefully 🤞
AM
13:25
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I’m done and now flexible the rest of the day. You still resting? And did you get a chance to listen to my voice messages?
13:29
Okay, I took this for someone else but I’m sending it to you because you haven’t even seen my new haircut 😂
A
14:42
Andrew
Cute!
❤
AM
14:43
I can chat for a minute if you're free. I want to hear my gossip lol
AM
14:46
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
One sec. Call you on Telegram?
A
14:49
Andrew
Just phone fine. I'm in car so that would be more reliable. Actually I may stop somewhere. Give me a minute
👍
AM
AM
14:50
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
You in town? It would be fun to meet in real life. I’ll run an errand to chat. But if not just let me know when to call
A
14:50
Andrew
Austin
🤷‍♀
AM
14:51
Doing some errands with Hailey and she's off on her own for a while
👍
AM
14:51
I'm gonna go to a place down the road and get a drink. I'll let you know when I'm situated.
AM
14:52
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Okay, sounds good. I’ll go get my rabbit food when you let me know. I actually haven’t had to get any since 11/13 when you told me about the feed place by Kreutz
A
15:04
Andrew
Ok I'm ready
AM
15:06
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Calling
AM
17:34
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
17:35
We talked for over two hours!! That is insane!
17:35
lol, so wait, you’re having to hide your phone now? Or did I misinterpret that last bit when we hung up?
A
17:45
Andrew
No I'm not hiding it. Not at all.
17:47
And... anything in it she might read. Not in a breaking into my phone kind of way. I just toss her my phone. There's nothing to hide. And I really want that kind of relationship.
AM
20:24
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
That surprises me based on your past behavior, but it’s good you’re being open. Just my two cents, I also think it’s a swing too far in the other direction. I think there should be privacy in couples, but especially with other people’s stuff. For example, my girlfriends and I specifically don’t just share our phones with our partners because other people’s secrets are on there.
20:25
I feel like I will now have to be very careful about personal things I share because I don’t know if Hailey will read them. Which will limit what I feel like I can tell you, and that sucks because you’re my favorite sounding board. I choose who I share information about Clayton with because I don’t want stuff spread about him
20:29
Like, I’m glad you trust Hailey, but she has no reason to know about Evan or if I have an attraction to anyone else in town, you know? I don’t know her so I have no reason to trust her.
20:29
But that’s all I have to say about that.
20:30
It was really, really good to talk to you today. It did my heart good.
AM
20:57
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Actually, case in point, right after I messaged you my kids got in a big fight and Louie hit Benjamín so Ben is crying and then Louie is rocking and crying and saying he wants to kill himself. It was horrible. But over now. But the point is that is the kind of stuff I want to share with you that stays between us. Not because it’s secret, just personal, and it feels weird to feel like everything I say might be…observed.
AM
23:29
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
We just finished the last Harry Potter movie and Louie had tears full on streaming down his face when it was revealed that Severus was really a good guy ❤️
14 March 2026
AM
13:11
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
On the plane nearly Orlando-bound!!! ✈️
Did you decide yet if you’re going to Big Bend?
13:22
Our flight got delayed on the tarmac 😮‍💨 So I’m looking at places to go when we land, and this restaurant popped up 😂 I remember you telling me your kids call Seafood and Steak Cowfish…
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22:46
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
22:47
That’s the restaurant they chose 😂 They love sushi AND hamburgers.
22:47
Don’t forget to send me that thread 🙃 If you still want to
A
22:48
Andrew
I'm not sure it's worth it
22:48
Oh reflection I'm honestly pretty annoyed with you
AM
22:48
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
And just thinking about what you said and maybe I misinterpreted. You just pass her your phone and don’t worry about what’s on your phone? Not that she’s going through it all the time?
22:48
In reply to this message
Why?
A
22:49
Andrew
Your reaction was shitty. And is shitty.
AM
22:50
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
My reaction to what I saw in the thread?
A
22:54
Andrew
Yep. Pretty much all of it. Reaction to the thread. Reaction to news from the thread, the abortion. Your attitude about my not wanting to continue an affair relationship with you. Lack of any acknowledgement about your behavior. I'm feeling pretty burned by everybody in my life right now.
AM
22:58
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I don’t know. I saw what I saw and I talked to you about it. I thought we had a really good and heartfelt conversation yesterday. I also thought we both acknowledged a lot yesterday. I didn’t push back about having zero poker face and being too obvious. It wasn’t intentional. And what was bad about my reaction about the abortion? I feel like you should have told me given the nature of our relationship at the time. You told others you were involved with. It made me feel less important in your world. And I also get why you didn’t, to a point. And I also said it just felt like you did and are doing all the things you judged me for doing with Clayton. The fact pattern aligns.
22:58
And I really needed to tell you how much you hurt me. And I am grateful to you for your reaction to that.
22:59
But I don’t want to burn you. I thought the general message was of love and support. On both sides.
23:01
I had thoughts later, too. Like you telling me I was just in love with the idea of you. Dude. I’m 43. I’m not a kid. I know you well. It’s not an idea. You’re a real person to me. And I refrained from telling you what I think about how you say you’re feeling right now because I’m not in your head and don’t want to presume to tell you how you feel. I’m not annoyed about that, but I did want to clarify that I’m a grownup and know how I feel.
23:02
I’m so very, very tired. Long day. Going to bed. Just thought the restaurant was funny. I want to keep being friends like we talked about yesterday. But it takes two. I’m still here, Huckleberry.
23:07
In reply to this message
Just reread…what attitude about you not wanting to continue an affair relationship? I was initially sad but after it was for the best. The real sadness came from you pretty much cutting me off as a friend
A
23:10
Andrew
I'm just real tired... everybody is selfish. I'm sure myself included.
AM
23:13
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Lol, if you think everyone is, then logically you must be included.
23:13
We’re both tired… Let’s just get rest
A
23:18
Andrew
It wasn't meant as some hollow quote. I am experiencing everyone else's behavior to be so incredibly selfish. You. Felicia. Every mother fucker in that thread. All the assholes sharing it about town.
23:20
What in the heck did I do wrong? Seriously? I'm a bad guy for supporting my girlfriend when a pregnancy accident happened? This makes me a bad guy? I travel with her out of state, do the whole thing, and I'm a bad guy for that?
23:21
I'm a bad guy for ... pointing out all these other people's bad behavior? A huge circus of interconnected drama and I'm the bad guy for daring to pop off and call people out?
23:23
I'm a bad guy for getting into it with Felicia, after she effectively steals from me, thousands of dollars, lies and manipulates me into humiliating myself in front of all these people. A pattern of deception and manipulating spanning years that finally spilled over.
23:23
I'm the bad guy?
23:23
I'm the fucking bad guy?
AM
23:42
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
How am I thrown in this mix? And classified as selfish?
23:45
In reply to this message
The way you said it to me back then, I wouldn’t have thought she was your girlfriend. You told me you kept trying to break up with her and wanted to.
But that’s neither here not there. I didn’t say you were a bad guy for doing this. And I also said it was really horrible of Marissa for blasting it out there to everyone. I thought that was shitty the second I saw it, and I was simultaneously sad that you hadn’t told me. It felt like a punch to the gut when I read it.
A
23:46
Andrew
Because you are. Your first reaction to that thread is yourself. You didn't stop for even a moment to think about the context and consider, get maybe Andrew has a completely legitimate point here. Yeah he's not really going about it in a ever effective way. But yeah, he's right to be upset about all this bullshit.
AM
23:46
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
I don’t know all of the details on all of that. I think you said you wanted to ask me about it. And I can read the thread or not. I never saw the entire thing. Up to you.
A
23:47
Andrew
And most offensive of all is reacting to Marissas horrible behavior as if I did a single thing wrong. Guy stands by pregnant girlfriend, let's publicly smear him.
23:49
And your private reaction shared with me was jealously that I didn't tell you about it
AM
23:49
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
I don’t see how recognizing that the way you were texting seemed unhinged and freaked me out. It was seeing how you talked to the people you had cared about once - Felicia and Marissa - not anyone else - that freaked me out. I know the history with Tati and Alora and co. But I don’t know what had happened afterwards with Felicia. And I obviously did pause and think about you which is why I talked to you about it at all.
A
23:49
Andrew
Wtf
23:50
Not your business and your reaction joining in with these people really proves that
AM
23:50
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
I don’t understand that part
23:50
Never mind. Just got it.
23:51
In reply to this message
I literally just said that I don’t think it’s okay that she publicly put that information out there.
A
23:52
Andrew
So... the point is you're not defending me. Moreover, you made it about yourself.
AM
23:52
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
In reply to this message
It’s not jealousy. It was….betrayal maybe? Not that you got her pregnant but that you withheld something so important going on in your life from me. Maybe not betrayal. I can’t think of the word. I’m tired. Sad is the core emotion there though.
23:55
In reply to this message
Not defending you? How do you want me to do that? I will repeat that I was appalled that she shared it. But the content of the information still provoked an emotional reaction in me. I don’t know how you don’t get that. In sorry it happened and you went through that, I’m sure it was hard on Hailey, and also it really sucks that Marissa shared it with so many people. It’s psychotic really
23:55
I’m going to sleep now.
23:59
Honestly I don’t appreciate you turning this around on me. You suck me in then freeze me out then get mad at me when I have strong emotions as a result of the roller coaster. I’m tired of feeling disposable to you. I thought we had a really honest and real conversation yesterday. This sudden and intense flip is confusing and exhausting and I can’t give you that kind of power over me anymore.
A
23:59
Andrew
Your emotional reaction is selfish. Instead of feeling for the actual people this is hurting. Hailey. Me. Instead, you're jealous... or something.
15 March 2026
A
00:00
Andrew
Sudden and intense flip? Amanda I'm my mad and screaming. I'm holding a beer and playing with a fire outside.
00:01
Your reaction to my even expressing feelings in this moment is really driving my point home.
00:03
How am I sucking you in? I'm having the same honest conversation we started yesterday.
AM
00:04
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Not sucking me in now. I meant before. The back and forth generally, the cyclical nature of our relationship.
A
00:04
Andrew
Your big reaction speaks to my point. You act like we can be just friends and there isn't some agenda towards a romantic relationship. You repeatedly have said this over time, but then the behavior says otherwise.
AM
00:05
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
It feels intense when you say wtf, but I’m glad it’s not. And I’m happy to continue an honest and open conversation even though it’s uncomfortable.
00:05
In reply to this message
What behavior? We haven’t even seen each other.
00:06
But I really am going to sleep now. I can read and respond tomorrow. I hope you rest and have a good night. I gotta rest for a big theme park day with my boys.
00:07
In reply to this message
And I think you’re having a big reaction, you think I am. Classic communication issues.
00:08
You’re poking a fire and drinking a beer, I’m laying in bed in a hotel watching Twins with my kids. Not having a big reaction over here either
A
00:11
Andrew
That's good
00:16
Ok I'll send the thread.
AM
06:03
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Okay 🙂 Send it on over whenever.
06:05
Ugh, I’m already awake for my day because we get early park entry since we’re in the resort and I’m dying 🥴 I require a great deal of sleep and didn’t sleep much more than five hours the last two nights
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09:21
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I’m geeking out. It’s amazing. And the Hogwarts castle IS here!! We just had breakfast in the Three Broomsticks!!! And Moaning Myrtle is in the bathrooms!!
09:22
09:22
A
09:25
Andrew
Cool
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09:37
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
It is!! We’re about to ride the Hogwarts Express
09:37
A
09:38
Andrew
Fun
A
15:34
Andrew
In reply to this message
To be clear, you're referring to Felicia here right? How I was ashamed about her and trying to keep it low key?
AM
20:48
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
No, that was about Hailey. In like August or September
A
20:49
Andrew
I never said I was ashamed of Hailey and trying to break up with her. I'm really confused.
20:49
Hailey read that and thought it was about her and I thought you meant Felicia because we had those conversations.
🤷‍♀
AM
AM
21:02
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
That message doesn’t say you were ashamed of her. It just says you wanted to break up with her and had already tried to. You never said you were ashamed of her to me.
A
21:04
Andrew
That's not accurate
21:04
I never tried to break up with Hailey
21:05
I have tried to break up with Felicia
AM
21:09
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I’m pretty sure you were talking about Hailey. That’s who I thought we were talking about at the time, but maybe we got our wires crossed.
21:10
I actually have a specific memory, but I don’t feel like I should write it here anymore.
21:12
But then later you said that maybe it was just all the other outside drama that got in your head.
21:13
At Bubba Gump with my kids and that’s right in front of me, and I found it to be pretty perfect for this situation
16 March 2026
A
23:38
Andrew
So. Check this shit out.
23:39
Felicia sends me this.
23:39
23:40
Felicia warns me to let me know my girlfriend is such a whore about town dudes are sharing nudes of her at the bar.
23:40
I tell Hailey this latest bs.
23:41
She contacts Felicia.
23:43
23:43
Felicia claims it was Mitch.
23:44
Hailey happens to be friends with Mitch, contacts him.
23:44
23:44
23:45
Felicia is a total liar scumbag.
20 March 2026
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11:04
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
That’s pretty messed up and sounds stressful to deal with. But reading it, do you think there’s any chance that Mitch is lying? Hailey came at him pretty hard. Or do you think it could have been someone else Felicia was talking about? All Felicia said in the screenshot you sent me was “bonfire”. If Felicia is indeed lying, that’s really odd and immature behavior. The only goal I can think of would be to try to stir up trouble. But no matter what, it sounds like someone was lying. Also, would you even care if Hailey had done that? If y’all are poly-ish anyway?
11:05
On another note, did you end up going to Big Bend?
A
11:06
Andrew
Of course Felicia is lying. Not a debate.
11:06
All she does is lie.
11:08
And no, I don't care if Hailey sent Mitch a pic some time. I would care if Mitch was showing it around.
11:09
Unless Felicia has been telling the truth about you all this time I'm not sure why you'd defend this for even a moment.
AM
14:05
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Yeah, Mitch showing it around would definitely not be cool, but it also doesn’t seem like him. That would actually shock me.
14:15
I wasn’t defending Felicia, just pointing out that she never said Mitch’s name and she also didn’t seem to swear up and down that it was Mitch, as Hailey said in her text. I mean, she said she was shown a topless photo from last week of Hailey, didn’t say who showed it to her, maybe the bonfire was just meant to imply Mitch but I don’t know the full context, and if she did lie that’s really strange and even devious behavior. Also, the possibility exists that Felicia was lied to by someone, there was a nude photo from some point in time, and the person showing it said it was from last week. And that would really suck because it means that someone is showing nudes of Hailey around town. I would die from embarrassment and feel for Hailey if that is happening. All that to say, that’s not a defense, more like observations. The situation isn’t emotionally charged for me so I don’t have the anger driving the conclusion.
Also it’s not a logical leap to say that if I were to defend her now, which I’m not, that would mean that everything she said about me is true. I never blamed my PI on you, internally or vocally. I guess the lie seems like such an odd thing to me that I’m trying to make sense of it, but often the right answer is the easiest one, which in this case, is that Felicia is lying and the only rationale behind the lie that makes any sense is that she is trying to stir up trouble. Which also sucks.
14:15
I hope the drama ends for you all very soon.
A
14:18
Andrew
She did say Mitchs name
14:19
And has also confirmed it and doubled down on it later
14:19
She claimed she'd send security camera video
14:19
And... of course hasn't
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14:22
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Geez. You don’t send all that. I’d be really mad at her if I were Mitch, too. For dragging him into the fray. What security camera footage? From the restaurant? Is she even allowed to do that?!
A
14:50
Andrew
Good question
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15:04
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I actually can’t imagine that it would be okay with the owners. Pretty major privacy violation, probably not illegal, but would be a bad look for Loops if employees send security footage to townsfolk
15:11
Are you off having fun in Big Bend? I hope you went
A
15:20
Andrew
My vehicle exploded
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15:23
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
What?!? Like for real exploded or just serious car trouble?
A
15:33
Andrew
Well. The turbo came loose and drained the engine off all oil and no dashboard warnings happened and now no vehicle.
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15:57
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Nooo!!! Are you able to get it fixed or is it gone?
15:57
I’m SO sorry that happened! You needed that like you need a third eye
A
16:01
Andrew
I could use a third eye. This does nothing for me
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16:13
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
lol, it’s a figure of speech. I guess you could use the third eye but it would probably confuse your brain
16:13
But can you fix it??? Or is it just not even worth it?
16:15
And when did this happen? Just now over spring break?
Ughhh, car trouble is the worst. I am trying to decide if I need a new car or a new brain for my car. The brain fried because of a water leak from the sunroof which I suspect was caused by the asshole who hit my car in Bastrop and then tried to run me over to get away
22 March 2026
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01:14
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Having a sleepover at Skylar’s. It’s really fun to sleep over at a girlfriend’s house for no reason other than to have fun and watch movies. I haven’t done this since college 🤩
23 March 2026
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14:43
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Says we’re both experiencing changes in friends….just made me think of you with all the things you’ve had going on. lol, I have no idea what changes in friends I’m supposed to be experiencing. All is normal as far as I know.
A
14:47
Andrew
Shrug
26 March 2026
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Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Hi!!! My sister had her baby just now!!! She’s still getting sewn back up, and she was in intense labor for over 36 hours. She tried to have a home birth but had to go to the hospital in the middle of the night and they finally did a C-Section because neither she nor the baby were doing great. Her kidneys weren’t working right and the baby was in distress, but the baby is beautiful and healthy and finally born! (11 days post due date) And gender was a surprise, but it’s a BOYYYY!! She already has a girl, so I’m really happy for her to get both ❤️
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Just wanted to tell you all of that.
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Well congratulations to her!
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Would love to talk again soon if you can find the time. I’ve been really busy this week but can find time soon I’m sure
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SO happy for her!!! Her labor went pretty much exactly the same way mine did both times. Our bodies can’t get the babies out
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Good thing she's alive today then, Darwin would have shut the blood line down...
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Lol, dark 🤣
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But yeah, pretty sure we both would have died in labor, and our mama before we were even born, actually. She had 4 c-sections
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So actually there would be no Amanda or Amelia
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Welp, baby is in the NICU with o2 level of 82 and Amelia has preeclampsia, a uterine infection, and is bleeding from her incision heavily enough that they think they’ll have to take her back into surgery to look for a bleeder, and her kidneys still aren’t working. I’m really worried
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That kind of stuff is scary but I'm sure the baby will be fine. I wouldn't fret too much. The tech we have is amazing.
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Claire was 2 months (without exaggeration) premature and was a month in the NICU. She's doing great and turns 20 next month.
27 March 2026
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Yeah, I was really scared for both of them. My sister is better now and the baby is stable but still in the NICU. It is very scary. Ugh
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Thanks
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Do you have any time to talk today? I probably have a window at some point
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I had to stop at the gas station by your house – those tacos smell really good by the way and I was wondering if you ever get them – but I saw you got your car back! Is it working?
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Car is not working. Engine blown.
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Shit. I was hoping it was working because it wasn’t there and later it was. Is it fixable?
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Sure, a new engine lol
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I mean, yes. My car needs a new brain. We’re like the scarecrow and tinman
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Are you going to the No Kings thing tomorrow?
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No
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Haven't heard anything about that and wouldn't have time either way
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What are you up to tomorrow?
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I’m a speaker 🙈 I’m really nervous
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They wanted an immigration attorney to speak
28 March 2026
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Either Claire was there or her doppelgänger was…do you know if she went?
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No idea
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I’m curious if you think to ask her
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My sister just announced the baby name! It IS Leo ♌️ ❤️
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I just got my full speech on video if you want to see it
29 March 2026
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Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Could we hang out next week? This coming weeks is busy, but the next week I’d really love to hang out, and if we schedule in advance we can figure out a time. Let’s climb a tree! Or play Rummikub! I also just want to clear the air after things got weird after our phone conversation. I definitely have just one other thing I want to say about that but don’t want to text it.
31 March 2026
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Decided to just send it in case you decide to watch it. It’s only 6.5 min. And I’m 90% sure that the person I saw was Claire, but I wasn’t that close to her and haven’t seen her in person in a while.
1 April 2026
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lol, Telegram says it’s your birthday. Also that you’re just now 41 🙄 😂 So happy fake birthday/April Fool’s Day!
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And how are you? Everything okay? You’ve gone very quiet again
2 April 2026
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Hey, ugh, it’s been a year today since we started our affair. It made me sad in a way I didn’t expect. I wish you would make a plan to talk to me or even open my messages. I miss your friendship so much 😔 Please, Andrew?
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Update when I can
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Exactly a year ago shenanigans were happening. I hate my memory.
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lol, I was writing that at the same time.
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Okay. I hope you’re okay 🤗
3 April 2026
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I just met Shia LaBeouf and he treated me like a pretty girl and made me feel special 😊
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That was right after the encounter 😂
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Amanda Mitchell Diaz
Last night, Clayton and I ended up getting in a dumb fight, and you came up yet again. I actually have the whole thing recorded because he was recording so I started recording. But he was attacking you pretty hard and called you a bad dad and I defended you and now I’m in trouble.
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And lol, see how patiently I’m waiting for the update… 🙃
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Oh! I saw Isaac last night! He seems like he’s doing really great. He’ll be out soon.
5 April 2026
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Happy Easter! 🐣🐇 Did you get to do the Easter stuff with your kids this year? (I imagine at least Luke, Jonathan and Wren since they live with you full time now…?)
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I just ran 3 miles! First time to go that far in 2 years! I’m training for the 10k here. Are you doing the Safari this year? The qualifying race (or whatever that’s called, for the start place) is normally that same weekend, so I’ve been wondering about that.
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Cute. We took the littles to Hailey's sisters house and did Easter festivities combined with their kids. I've got some lingering sickness I've been getting over that won't die off.
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I don't want to hurt your feelings but I think we need a long communication break. Your messages are making me uncomfortable. As I've said so many times I don't want to have an affair. I don't think that's good what happened before and it filled me with anxiety. And I'm not interested in any kind of dating relationship with you. I just don't have those feelings. I'm sorry things aren't going well with Clayton. I'm not sure what else to say. This pattern seems to repeat and it's not a pattern I want to repeat.
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So, first of all, what do you mean you don’t want to hurt my feelings. You hurt them frequently in various ways. Second, I don’t really trust anything you say over text anymore because I don’t know how much of it is you and how much, if not all, is Hailey. That brings me to my third point, which is: this is a conversation that should happen in person. Besides not trusting the source of your texts, and besides worrying about what might later be documented and used against me, you kind of owe me an in person conversation. You did a weird and painful quiet breakup, which I said to you on the phone. So can we talk?
For clarity’s sake, I will repeat that I also don’t want to have an affair with you anymore. There are still intermittent feelings of sadness, mainly because of the sad state of our friendship now, but I agreed and agree that the affair should not continue. I’m pretty much just texting you like we’ve always texted, and trying to continue our friendship.
I have a lot more to say and would prefer to continue in person, but that requires your consent. And you said on the phone just a couple of weeks ago that you’d like to talk more on the phone and hang out in person, so I’m hoping you will at least give me time in person one last time.
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Andrew
Sure we can talk in person, though I'm not in any rush for that. When timing works, sure. Your response is shitty and self absorbed.
Nowhere in any of these messages are you concerned with me and how these things impact me. Your reaction to the Felicia thread was the same. It was rude to me, and rude to Hailey, and now you want to stop affair nostalgia messages?
Amanda. Even still now what have you done? That whole situation got me sideways with Richard who you're good friends with and I don't see you sticking your neck out to defend me in any way. Either Felicia is a diabolical liar who has told the most insidious jealousy driven lies about you for years. Or you're the liar. Which is it? I don't see you reaching out to Richard to let him know a psychopath works for him. From what I hear you're buddy buddy with Felicia, in fact.
And now you're talking shit about Hailey because I don't like getting flirty messages from you? You're way out of line.
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The more I dwell on your response, the more it hurts my feelings. What a seriously selfish and shitty attitude.
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I have been so nice to you. And I don't owe you any kind of breakup conversation. We broke up years ago. And I've "broken up" numerous times as far as the "affair" is concerned. Why am I in so many situations like this? I don't mean to be rude and wow I'm having a hard time seeing much difference between you and Felicia right now. Felicia I was actually dating. I have never dated you. We have fooled around twice. Both times with you being married! To different guys!
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And every woman in town thinks I'm some heinous monster about it even though I'm not a cheater! I never cheated!
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How am I getting roasted?
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What did you tell these people?
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You claim to care about me? Go set the record straight with all these people. You say I've hurt you? How? Because you want me to have feelings that I don't have? I consider you a really good friend. I'd love to stay friends. And my god Amanda you haven't really been much of a friend to me when the moment counts. I've never treated you so disrespectfully. I've never denied your existence. I've never disparaged you. Even now I defend you with Hailey. I really care about the truth and I try to be so objective about things. I've been there for you a million times and you've never been there for me.
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Andrew, you’re being really insulting. I haven’t insulted you. I told you my feelings, and you were insulted, but I haven’t called you any names. I do not think I am being self-absorbed or selfish. I am heartbroken and you are grossly mischaracterizing our relationship. You pursued me pretty hard for a long time. I asked you to be careful with me and you were not. Now I’m hurt. Again.
I have been there for you in many ways. I read your legal stuff when you want me to and drop everything to do it. You didn’t have my number but I would have gotten you after your DUI. I gave you thoughtful presents. I ask about your life, but you don’t answer and you hardly ever ask about mine. I tried to come over every single time you asked me to. I have been there for SO many things. Including this rant. I’m hiding in the shower to text you back. Saying I’ve never been there for you is not true at all. We’ve been there for each other over and over. I feel like often you’re not there for me when I needed you. You push me away. You are an avoidant attacher and with you, I’m an anxious one.
20:37
I don’t know what you want me to do about Richard. I didn’t know things have gone sideways between him and you. He does not mention you to me. And I actually have been very busy and have had to skip dominoes a lot, so I’ve only seen him in passing. I can continue this conversation later when I have more time and you stop attacking me.
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I’ll continue respectfully.
20:40
And I have a lot of trouble believing your feelings for me just disappeared. I can’t make it make sense in my mind. But you just told me that you deeply, deeply care for me. So there’s that. And I love you. Very much. Always have. Hopefully won’t always. You told me you loved me and that the only reason you had a second affair with me is because it’s me. We’ve had blurred boundaries for years. I don’t know exactly what it is you’re wanting from me. You don’t talk to me for long bouts and then get mad at me for not doing something I didn’t know to even do at all.
7 April 2026
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Amanda Mitchell Diaz
That’s just a small sample of our texts over a few months. And there are years of those. I send them to remind you that you were actively pursuing me and even encouraging an affair. I’m sorry the affair caused you anxiety. It caused me anxiety, too. But don’t rewrite the story so much that you reduce it to “hooking up” a couple of times. I saw in the thread that I said I loved you a couple of times over the months. And you said you wanted to “make love” to me 6 months before you actually got to again. Your latest version of the story borders on gaslighting. But the truth is in here. And the person I miss soooo much is in here. You were there for me and I was there for you. We had our lovely bubble.
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Here is where you said you love me
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Here are a bunch of texts of you wanting me to come over.
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Here’s a message of me very early on freaking out about Hailey coming into the picture. It’s not that I’m shit talking her now, but I do not know her and a lot of things you said to me about her in person do not give me confidence in her ability to keep a secret.
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And one more thing to correct. When I was in Orlando you asked me about the message that you wanted to break up with Hailey, and you said you never said that, and I backed down because I didn’t want to fight. You absolutely said you wanted to break up with her AFTER Japan. I remember it well actually because we were standing in your closet and you were showing me the luggage you had to buy on your trip and I noticed the dark green grinch wrapping paper, which I noticed because I had basically the same paper as well and it is why I chose that paper for your Christmas present, but I digress. The point is that I very clearly remember this. And you said that you think you have to break up with Hailey. I said to just do it. And you said that you had tried several times already, and then you said “despite what people think, I’m not actually a bad guy. I don’t like to just cut people off.” And I told you that for the record I never thought you were a bad guy.
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But either way, you told me you wanted to break up with her after Japan. And you told me a couple of times that you were starting to see that she was crazy. And you would tell me you wanted me to come over but couldn’t get Hailey out of your house and that it was intrusive because she’d bring her computer and boxes of papers and her dog, which you especially didn’t like because she’d get on your couch.
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FYI Most of these messages are photos
But yes, Andrew, I have a pretty strong emotional reaction to you reducing our years-long relationship into “a couple of hookeups”. And saying we never dated. We didn’t date, but it felt like a deeper connection than just dating. You were my friend, even my best friend, before all else. And bottom line, that’s what I miss. I haven’t heard anyone talk about you since the text thread gossip blew up. I didn’t know you even still need defending. I have no idea what’s going on with you because you no longer tell me. And I can’t keep getting hurt by you. I’m ready to talk when you can come from a place of respect. I still think in person is better because this texting is a shit show.
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13:29
Andrew
Ok. So your reaction is to double down. Got it. There's no reason for us to meet. We have nothing to talk about. I hope you come to some kind of a good outcome with Clayton, whatever is best for you and your kids.
13:32
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This is a fucking lie
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I have been telling you no over and over and over and over and you won't take no for an answer
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I've never invited you to my house even once
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And I damn sure was never sneaking around trying to sneak you over in between Hailey or anyone
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This whole stream of messages is so inappropriate.
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I'm not in love with you Amanda. I've never been in love with you.
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And no, you're actually a pretty shitty friend. You only acknowledge me in secret. You never stand up for me. You tell horrible lies about me. I don't trust you in any way. I wish you'd go away. I try to me nice to you because I do care about you as a person and you don't reciprocate anything. You're insecure and want me to like you.
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I do not want to fight with you. And I couldn't care less about how your day was. We could be friends, but you can't. You're not capable of it. You message me nonsense like you're my girlfriend and then get mad when I say text less and bomb me with all this emotional terrorism. I'm not interested.
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14:50
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
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Double down how? I am showing you all the things you’ve said to me. Did you even read any of them?
14:51
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This is absolutely not a lie. It happened, and I know the timing because of your luggage. And you said all of the other things, too.
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One example of you inviting me over. If you read the screenshots I sent you’ll see many others. And the day you ended the affair I asked you if we’d still hang out, and you said we could still hang out all the time.
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On the phone you said you’d like to hang out again and even said I should come to a bonfire at your land.
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You’ve been ambiguous. The spoken conversations are very different from the written. And when I ask to hang out you say you’ll see.
14:55
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If you’ve never been in love with me, this was a REALLY shitty way to play with me. Especially knowing that I was in love with you.
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Acknowledging you in secret was always part of the deal. You said you weren’t worried about it.
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I SERIOUSLY don’t know what horrible lies you’re talking about. And in reference to why a bunch of people in town hate you, I also don’t know how you think that’s connected to me. I haven’t heard anyone talk about you in almost a month. I don’t bring you up. I have actually defended you MANY times to many different people. I never wanted to tell you exactly what people said about you because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings. But when someone would say something bad about you, all these years, I say that I dated you and that I loved you and you were wonderful. I just def need you to Clayton the other night. I have defended you. And I don’t spread lies about you. Period.
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You absolutely would text me that you’re waiting for Hailey to leave and express frustration that she wouldn’t. And then I’d come over and even had a bit of her open, leftover cherry White Claw. (I didn’t know it was hers. You offered it and I started drinking it and then you told me it was Hailey’s and then I didn’t want it anymore)
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You also had me come over when Marissa was staying with you for a few days while she went to a Dr. appt in San Marcos
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I don’t want to fight with you either. We’ve had a pretty frictionless relationship for years without the affair drama. I have been trying to bring the levity and the natural feeling back to our relationship. You used to text me all sorts of things about your day and your kids and your trips. And I loved that and miss it. So I was trying to just be normal. But maybe I’m not normal and I’m awkward. I’ve told you this before. Even this fight feels like part of the cycle.
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There are screenshots of you updating me about your day. There are more in the chats I already sent
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It seems very unlikely that we will agree on any of this. I do hope we can be friends again.
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Amanda. You're blasting me with 97 and now thirty something messages at once. I'm not reading any of this shit and it's weird AF. It's deranged. Instead of just acknowledging a simple boundary and being respectful what the actual fuck are you trying to do right now?
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Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I guess I feel like the only way for you to see my side is to send proof of all that has transpired. The numbers exaggerate your point…it was way less messages, mainly screenshots. And you’re calling me deranged now? You do stuff like this to people to prove your point. I am refusing to let you twist everything that’s happened between us. And really, the ultimate goal is to just get back to being friends like we were. But I also obviously knew when I sent this that you would probably not react well and that this could effectively end the friendship. Can we just talk on the phone for a few minutes? I am calm and just want closure but this is not working. And I’m curious about what lies you say I’m spreading about you.
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And seriously, you of all people, I have felt the safest and securest with. I never thought you would act this way towards me. I am really sad and want you to remember so you at least don’t just write me off as nothing. You can obviously still set your boundaries and we can just be friends or we can be nothing. But the truth really matters to me.
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Act what way? I said I don't feel comfortable getting flirty messages from you and all this ensues? Nothing about this is cool.
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I'll go back and read more later. Maybe. To be honest this is so self absorbed I don't really have any motivation to. Your reaction to "everything" is about you. You're not being a good friend. And you're not being honest. These messages are so weird it's as if you're hoping to drive some wedge between me and Hailey hoping she'll read this stuff. And she's welcome to read it. And to the extent you are being honest your perspective is warped. A consistent theme with us is you always trying to put words in my mouth and assuming I feel things I don't and trying to strong arm words out of me to validate what you want me to feel. It's manipulative. I'm my own person. You could just be a friend but instead are having some big freakout that I don't want to receive your advances. And you owe me an apology to for all the bullshit with Felicia and your reaction to that plus Hailey's abortion. You've been real mean. And I have not been mean to you at all. For some stupid reason I keep trying to tend to your feelings even when they aren't justified at all. I keep trying to be this "nice" guy to so many people. I had it with Felicia. And your behavior now is really making me feel the same.
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There is so much to say about what you are doing that I don’t know where to begin, but the heart of it is cold dismissiveness. I also don’t even know what to say because it seems that everything I say leads you to call me self-absorbed, and which is an instant conversation stopper. How can anyone ever talk about their feelings if doing so makes them self-absorbed?
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I hope you do read more later. It took me a long time to compile, but I did it knowing you would likely never look at it. The point of sending any of that was to basically show you my memories. If we were in Hogwarts that would be my pensieve. It’s my memories of how things used to be between us. I was continuing the same flow in recent messages, but maybe it was always flirty and i just didn’t realize how much. I can adjust and not be flirty. I sincerely do not want to restart the affair. I do love you, but I do not trust you enough for that either.
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I don’t know what to apologize for and I don’t know how I’ve been mean. I don’t care if Hailey reads those messages or not. I’d really rather her not read any of our messages or know about the affair at all. But it’s too late for that. I do think a conversation in real live time would be better. We communicate much better when we’re speaking to each other than we do over text. We always have in my opinion.
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This one part that felt so dismissive. Putting “break up” and “affair” in quotes. What does that mean? That it wasn’t real? “We have fooled around twice.” We had a fling four years ago and a seven-month long affair recently and quite possibly an emotional affair the entire time between. And then you try to boil everything down to this, and say you pretty much never wanted the affair because it caused you anxiety and that you don’t feel comfortable with my texts when we’ve been texting that way for years. And you have said that nothing had to change between us besides just not fooling around anymore. So it’s hard for me to follow, intellectually and emotionally.
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And last thing about the Hailey stuff, I thought what you said was weird. It was like you were writing stuff FOR her to read. And what you said wasn’t true at all.
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And to the last part, my feelings are justified. But you’d have to read what I sent. You have been mean in a different way. We both perceive meanness from the other but it seems we really are both trying to be nice to each other. And I want that. I do care so much about you. I hope you find happiness. I hope you and your kids are okay. I hope you keep doing the things you love and are really good at. I still admire you very much for many reasons. I do tell people how much I loved you (I always use past tense in public for obvious reasons) but I do say that I think you’re misunderstood when people talk shit. And that you have a good heart. But the texts I saw from you in that chat floored me. If that’s the reaction you want me to apologize for, I will. It kind of made me sick. But I still reached out to you to ask you about it. And about the abortion, I said I’m sorry it had to happen, but also that we were in a relationship at the time that warranted you telling me. It hurt me to find out later, and I can’t apologize for that. And since I already said I was sorry that it happened at all, I really don’t know what you want me to say.
I do want to be a good friend to you, but I actually do not understand how I haven’t been. I’ve been there for you over and over. I’ve offered to help you in so many ways like bringing you soup when you’re sick or taking Leo to summer camp. I keep thinking of things. But apparently there is something I’ve done or haven’t done that makes you think this. And I feel like there is a weird hyper focus on my not defending you against something going on with Richard and women in town who hate you (?) (and of these things I really know nothing after that text chain) and on my knee-jerk, gut reaction to the text chain. Other than that, what have I actually done to you? The actual only one thing I have not been able to tolerate emotionally is your withdrawal of your presence from my life. But that’s heartbreak, I don’t see that as not being a good friend.
9 April 2026
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Just kicked out of loops with my kids.
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I’m sorry that happened. That really sucks, especially with your kids there. How did they react? Did they understand that you were being kicked out?
I hate that that happened for your kids’ sake; however, I fail to see the connection between the incident at Loops on Thursday and you including me in a cease and desist lawsuit. I had nothing to do with you getting kicked out of Loops or any of the other gossip and social trouble that you have blamed me for. I don’t even understand what you think I’ve done because you have only made cryptic allusions. Your text was menacing and made me very uncomfortable.
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Menacing?
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Lol. Amanda. There is a long history of 1) Felicia telling lies about stuff that you have reportedly told people (about me) at the bar. And that history continues until just recently. I've got text messages from her calling you a liar saying you made up shit about Miranda. 2) You reported to me that staff of loops was spreading disparaging gossip about me. You said this. All in writing. Liz and Van, and Skylar was another party to it. They were telling the story that I tried to get people fired and that Miranda told me to fuck off. All false.
12:23
We now have a situation where Felicia, as the manager and an acting representative of the restaurant is using her position and the restaurant itself and its resources, including security camera video and audio recordings, to disparage patrons.
12:24
This makes the restaurant, the business entity, liable for her actions.
12:24
And it's not just her actions, but others.
12:26
So. Yes. I am absolutely sending a cease and desist. It's not a lawsuit yet, just a demand letter. I will be demanding an apology letter, to Hailey, to Mitch, and to me, and written assurance from ownership that this behavior will not continue. And yes, you are going to be named in this as a witness who has observed these behaviors and also been a victim of them.
12:27
And if loops doesn't respond appropriately, I am 1) sending the cease and desist to the local paper and 2) initiating a lawsuit.
12:34
Prior to sending the letter I am meeting with the Lockhart PD and reporting Felicias behavior. I will be providing video of her trying to break into my bedroom and refusing to leave the house and being violent.
12:34
As well as reporting that her report about Alora was fake. She filed a fake police report to try and backup her bullshit story.
12:34
After getting that taken care of, letter will be sent to loops owners.
13 April 2026
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17:02
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
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I would like to see screenshots of what Felicia sent you. This also makes me very uncomfortable because I am friends with Miranda and have never said a negative word about her. What lies?
17:03
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I would really rather you left my name out of this. I’m sorry you can’t go to Loops, but I don’t want to be connected with this demand letter as a witness or a victim.
17:04
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Are you talking about when she tried to accuse Mitch of showing her a topless photo of Hailey? Whatever happened with all of that?
17:05
I also heard about Felicia going to O’Donnell’s on Thursday. It is all very messy.
A
17:07
Andrew
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Goodness who told you that?
17:07
She had us kicked out of loops and then followed us over there
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17:10
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
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Felicia, actually. I went to Loops for a little bit on Friday and she was still very upset. And it was her birthday. But she told me all about it. She spoke very loud at the bar about some stuff that I definitely didn’t want to be blasted out there, and I’m afraid she knows more than you told her about us.
17:10
Like you said, she definitely seems to suspect.
17:11
But, screenshots? I want to see what she said that I said. (This is all very high school)
A
17:11
Andrew
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Yeah I get that. And I don't care. In some part you are responsible for this. You claim to be my friend and have had numerous opportunities to defend me and haven't. Or worse Felicia is actually telling the truth and you're a bad actor. I have no idea at this point. The record needs to be set straight.
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17:13
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
I don’t see how I’m responsible for this at all. What opportunities have I had to defend you? And how has me ever saying anything helped even a little bit? I told you when people were talking shit about you and it blew up in my face. Like, really bad. And again, I never ever blamed you for my PI.
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17:28
Andrew
I don't see things that way. You ratted around on both of your husbands. You disclosed things to third parties after agreeing not to. At a minimum you told Brit. Other women have at a minimum suspected and you made things real obvious with your behavior in public that I constantly fussed at you about. You created scenes which gave rise to rumors, and Felicia has been hard core running with that football. Now there is this huge group of women in town that have the most terrible ideas about me. That you either directly caused or indirectly caused with your selfishness, happy to let me take the proverbial fall rather than get in trouble at home and deal with the natural consequences of your actions.
17:29
Sorry.
17:29
Not trying to throw you under the bus. It just so happens that you have a lot of information about this person. And you also happen to be friends with Richard and Miranda.
17:30
All I want is a fucking apology.
17:31
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What was she blasting?
17:31
And it was NOT her birthday, btw. Her bday was the next day after.
17:32
"I’m afraid she knows more than you told her about us."
17:32
I'm not sure what you mean by this.
17:33
I never said a word to Felicia. Only to Hailey. As I told you though, Felicia very much suspected and frequently accused. That was because of your public behavior.
A
17:58
Andrew
Wait I realized when I went back to read that you said Friday. Was she on duty while running her mouth?
14 April 2026
AM
00:14
Amanda Mitchell Diaz
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Goddam you can be mean. And really fucking hypocritical. You have had plenty of secret relationships while you were married even though you were supposed to be open. I have no idea who belongs to this huge group of women with terrible ideas about you, but I assure you it comes from somewhere else. You don’t even know most of my friends and they have no idea who you are or that you even exist. And you happily and actively participated in this secret relationship for years. Don’t put all of that on me. We both wanted to stay friends even though we both knew that Clayton didn’t want us to be.
00:22
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You are absolutely throwing me under the bus if you involve me. And that’s putting it mildly. You’ll probably be lighting my life on fire. You call me selfish, but this takes the cake. And for what? Access to Loops, which you have talked shit about for a long time. You’ve said so many times that they went downhill a while ago. So why do you even care? And why would you even have gone there. You had to know you wouldn’t be welcome, but you went with your kids anyway, and now you’re trying to get an apology? From whom? From Loops the business? From Felicia? From the owners as individuals? And you think that sending some cease and desist letter will accomplish what you want? What is it you want? Dignity? Respect? If you just leave it alone it will probably die down soon enough, people will forget, and you can talk to Richard peacefully as a friend. Or Felicia might not even work there for long (this is not based on any actual knowledge or conversation with Felicia or the owners or anyone involved with Loops. It is just an idea in my head because that’s the nature of service industry). Instead this letter will likely alienate everyone involved and make the situation more permanent.
00:24
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I meant what I said. That I actually believe you (for some crazy reason, I do believe you) that you never told her.
00:27
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I’m still fucking PISSED that you told Hailey. That crossed a huge line and was also very hypocritical of you. You gave me crap for telling Clayton who you were. I am willing to bet money that the reason you cut me off so hard and are talking to me so disrespectfully is because Hailey doesn’t want us to hang out and you’re trying to make a show about not leading me on since she accused you of that, even though you absolutely have. You told me on the phone that you want to hang out, and then totally flipped on me. I felt like I got fucking mean girl three way called while I was in Orlando and you were like, that hurt Hailey’s feelings. Don’t let her read my fucking messages then. Jesus
00:29
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And NO. She was not on duty. As I said, it was her birthday on Friday when I saw her. You corrected me, but I think you misunderstood me. I was saying it was her birthday on Friday. Not the day you went to Loops. Maybe her birthday was Saturday, but she had a bunch of flowers and wasn’t working. So no, nothing to fuel your vendetta there. She wasn’t on duty and saying anything about you.
00:33
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Also, I find it really strange that you won’t send me screenshots of this conversation where Felicia recently told lies about me. You sent me the screenshots of her accusations against Mitch. You are usually all too eager to share screenshots, which I learned the hard way with you. Zero sense of boundaries or privacy. I really did feel safe with you and like we had our bubble. Buuuut, then you started showing people screenshots of our conversations. Starting with Hailey on July 4. Culminating in the Loops fiasco in November. Unless you’d already been showing people screenshots and I was too naive to believe that you would ever do that to me.
00:43
Don’t put my name in that letter as a “witness”. Witness to what? I have no firsthand knowledge of anything that could be helpful to you in any way, and I will apologize to Richard and Miranda and ask them to forget the whole thing as far as me being named in what sounds like is going to be a scathing letter that I want nothing to do with. Plus you’d be majorly exposing me to some real life consequences, not this high school drama bullshit. And you used to be scared of Clayton finding out. You don’t think he’ll be any less angry at you now than he would have been five months ago? The fact that you are so cavalier with my life and my feelings is astonishing and eye opening.
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02:16
Andrew
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I haven't read a single one of these messages. I started to and you lost me on the first sentence. No, Amanda, no. I did not break the terms of my open marriage at all. At all.
02:17
Please stop contacting me. That simple. I have much higher priority things to focus on and your continued messages are a problem.
02:17
I don't like to just ghost people and I really have no desire to communicate with you.
02:19
You are very likely to get outed by all this. Depends on how loops reacts I guess, because I'm going to make things ugly public. Yes, I expect a whole bunch of apologies. And if they don't come I'm burning every fucker to the ground.
02:19
Don't message me again.
02:32
I read a little more of what you wrote
02:33
you want some screenshots, here ya go
02:33
02:33
this is from telegram backup
02:34
02:34
two quick examples
02:35
I have 45 instances of her mentioning your name, and who knows how many HUNDREDS of messages beyond that from those discussions
02:35
SHE HAS NOTHING BUT SHIT TO SAY ABOUT YOU
02:35
And guess what, I don't trust you any more than I trust her. You talk about screenshots.... lmao. You just send me hundreds of screenshots of our conversations that I have REPEATEDLY asked you not to keep.
02:36
You've been a total cunt lately. A horrible person joining with these evil people. Don't you dare try and spin this on ME. This is YOUR behavior. Consequences YOU have brought UPON me!
02:37
If Felicia has been lying about you, then fucking do something about it. I'm burning you both to the ground over it.
02:37
Goodbye.